September 2008

the secret movie
These days there is a great deal of discussion and speculation over personal development as we see people really getting into things such as quantum physics as more and more of us really are looking for ways that we can readily and effectively make positive changes to our lives.

In discussing about the non conscious mind we know that it has no logic or reason. The subconscious mind will believe that a learned behavior is a positive thing, no matter how bad for us that habit may be.

the law of attraction
In looking more and more in detail at the psychology the subconscious mind we can talk about the subconscious mind and how it is governed by many rules. It really makes sense for us to learn about the rules of the law of attraction and subconscious mind in order to allow us to make the best use out of our subconscious minds with the least effort.

We all know about personal development and how paying real attention to this can have a marked change and positive effect in our lives. In line
with this we really have to get down to the deep understanding of our subconscious and know that our subconscious minds is helpful as far as it is concerned and sees the reasons it provides for avoiding the change as valid.

the science of getting rich
The how to apply the law of attraction takes in everything we learn and experience in our lifetime. It is this programming that serves to actually develop our habit patterns and the thing that we need to do is to literally reprogram our subconscious minds in order to get different outcomes in our lives.

It is those of us who really are determined to learn more about how we think as we look to be do and have all that we want to be. Going to seminars, reading books and getting a law of attraction coach are some of the many things and methods that we can use to really ramp things up and take our lives forward to higher level and new pastures. There really is good reasoning as to why we see mind power becoming more and more relevant in the times we find ourselves living in as more and more people are looking at religion and spirituality in different ways and looking for the smoothest way of tapping into the universal intelligence in order to make success a natural part of life.

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Many people have doubts or hesitate to agree to save their marriage. This issue stems from being disillusioned and unwilling to continue the marriage. The concern of could this marriage be saved arise from a point of view that shows that there is not a lot of communication between the spouses. A side effort to save a marriage may work at times but in some cases it does not. Asking experts, can this marriage be saved and then deliming factors that uncovers a potential for saving can help to encourage the spouse.

Facts

Can our marriage be saved by the efforts of one spouse?. Some people ask this particularily when their spouses seem to have given up on stopping the divorce. The answer to can our marriage be saved depends on many factors in the marriage.

Among the issues that can be the sign of a salvageable marriage is the amount of love that both individuals feel for each other. Spending time with someone always raises affection, if not love. Just one person can feel abandoned if love has walked out of the relationship.. If that person is willing to show the other that love can come back is actually the [question A nice detail would be to make the other one a present, like a box of chocolates or a chocolate basquet.

Asking can this marriage be saved is acknowledging that there is a big problem between the couple. The problem could not be that big if only one of the spouses acknowledges it. One factor that answers the question can this marriage be saved positively is the willingness of spouses to dialog with each other. The need and the want to be open with your spouse shows that you are willing to go the distance regarding stopping the divorce and living a better marriage with your spouse.

After all, a marriage works best with two people working every hour on it. Just one spouse who is willing to save the marriage may be in for a disappointment when the other rejects his or her efforts. If you notice the factors that make for a salvageable marriage, the cooperation of both spouses is still needed in the end. A good way of having something in common would be to adopt a puppy dog and share its training.

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LAW OF ATTRACTION ?- STEPHEN RICHARDS SAYS, ?ALWAYS HAVE AN AIR OF EXPECTANCY?

As one of my private students advised me, in fact something that I had written in my first Cosmic Ordering book, ?Cosmic Ordering Guide?, that I should always have an air of expectancy! So well done to them for reminding me of my very own teachings. This is something you MUST have about you if you are going to become a winner. Even in a situation where you are up against it, always have this air of expectancy, always know you are winner and you WILL be a winner.

READING MY WORDS WILL GUIDE YOU TO WHERE YOU WANT TO BE

Let me show you the power of words by use of a story.

There once was a wise sage who wandered the countryside. One day, as he passed near a village, he was approached by a woman who told him of a sick child nearby. She beseeched him to help this child.

So the sage came to the village, and a crowd gathered around him, for such a man was a rare sight. One woman brought the sick child to him, and he said a prayer over her.

“Do you really think your prayer will help her, when medicine has failed?” yelled a man from the crowd.

“You know nothing of such things! You are a stupid fool!” said the sage to the man.

The man became very angry with these words and his face grew hot and red. He was about to say something, or perhaps strike out, when the sage walked over to him and said: “If one word has such power as to make you so angry and hot, may not another have the power to heal?”

And thus, the sage healed two people that day.

Never underestimate what words can do for you.

WORK WITHIN THE BOUNDS OF YOUR CAPABILITIES AND YOU WILL SOON AMASS YOUR DESIRES

Work within your capabilities and build on this, do not go straight for lumps of gold and piles of cash. They will come your way, but not before you have applied yourself to the smaller Orders. This story epitomises what I mean.

Many years ago three soldiers, hungry and weary of battle, came upon a small village. The villagers, suffering a meagre harvest and the many years of war, quickly hid what little they had to eat and met the three at the village square, wringing their hands and bemoaning the lack of anything to eat.

The soldiers spoke quietly among themselves and the first soldier then turned to the village elders. “Your tired fields have left you nothing to share, so we will share what little we have: the secret of how to make soup from stones.”

Naturally the villagers were intrigued and soon a fire was put to the town’s greatest kettle as the soldiers dropped in three smooth stones. “Now this will be a fine soup”, said the second soldier; “but a pinch of salt and some parsley would make it wonderful!”

Up jumped a villager, crying “What luck! I’ve just remembered where some have been left!” And off she ran, returning with an apronful of parsley and a turnip. As the kettle boiled on, the memory of the village improved: soon barley, carrots, beef and cream had found their way into the great pot, and a cask of wine was rolled into the square as all sat down to feast.

They ate and danced and sang well into the night, refreshed by the feast and their newfound friends. In the morning the three soldiers awoke to find the entire village standing before them. At their feet lay a satchel of the village’s best breads and cheese. “You have given us the greatest of gifts: the secret of how to make soup from stones”, said an elder, “and we shall never forget.” The third soldier turned to the crowd, and said: “There is no secret, but this is certain: it is only by sharing that we may make a feast”. And off the soldiers wandered, down the road.

The soldiers just started out small, within the bounds of what they had. There was no shame in working with just a few basic things, but soon an abundance came their way, and that is how you must use Cosmic Ordering ?good luck.

Copyright Stephen Richards

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The most used element in this world is Fire. With fire we can make a lot of things like light, energy, heat, food and combustion. Thus fire became an everyday use at home specially when cooking and putting light during the night. This element both has its advantage and disadvantages and is both very useful and harmful in nature.

A light is created during a chemical reaction that becomes so attractive in our eyes even from a great distance. Out of curiosity we always draw into the light like moths trying to get close to the lamp. Curiosity kills a cat as they say, which is true in many ways like we go to places or do things out of curiosity just to try how they taste and feel without even thinking the dangers and harmful effects of it.

Most kids under the age of five are curious about fire. Often what begins as a natural exploration however can lead to tragedy.
Fire is fast. In less then 30 seconds a small flame can get completely out of control and turn into a major fire. Unfortunately most kids don’t think about what could happen. I remember myself playing a magnifying lens and a box of matches when suddenly the box burst into flames and caught my hands on fire fortunately I just got minor burns, blisters and worst bruised ass because my grandma slapped my butt endlessly for using his Folding Reading Glasses as an experiment.
Sometimes kids would play with fire intentionally. This group of children are often classified as ”Pyromaniacs”, children like these has an impulse to deliberately start fires to relieve tension and typically includes gratification or relief afterward.
For safety and precaution you should keep away objects that drives them to do such things such as matches, lighters and High Power Reading Glasses with thick lenses as they may mistakenly use it as another Magnifying Glasses experiment.

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The number one concern of parents who decide to get divorced is the impact of separation and divorce and their children’s well being. By understanding the fears of children whose parents are getting divorced, knowing what parents can do to help address and alleviate those fears, and doing those things, parents can help their children through what will probably be the roughest time of a child’s life.

The Fears

Children and divorced parents have a lot to be afraid of. Their world has been turned upside down, and their future is suddenly uncertain. Parents can reduce the uncertainty – and the stress and fear – by working out all these details before they even tell the children about the divorce, so they can answer all the child’s questions at one time.

Deciding Where To Live?

Kids know that Mom and Dad are going to have separate residences from now on. The child is never going to have her mother and father instantly available to her at the same time under one roof where they all live. This knowledge is extremely stressful, especially in cases where the family home has to be sold or where parents live in different cities after the divorce.

Parents who work out these details beforehand can help children fearing change and  divorce get through this difficult time by eliminating the stress associated with uncertainty.

How Will Their Time Be Divided Between Their Parents?

Children and divorcing parents know all about visitation and split parenting time, because they no doubt have friends whose parents are divorced. From these friends, the children know there will be change and confusion about who is going to pick them up from school, where they will spend holidays, how they will get their homework done, who will feed them, or where they will sleep.

Even when the divorced family gets along extremely well, visitation is the most stressful aspect of child divorce. After all, who among us would take a job that required us to split our time, 50/50, between two different locations? Not many. Having two homes in two different places, and having to shuttle all our stuff back and forth between the two of them, would be too stressful for many adults to undertake. Yet divorcing parents expect children to adapt and adjust.

Many divorced parents have adopted the practice of leaving the children in the family home and having the parents be the ones who move in and out of the picture. Not everyone will agree with the arrangements, but it could be the best way for both parties to deal with the issue of divorce and children.

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I’ve got to order some flowers, dunno if I’ll do Puppy Love online or at the local florist. I would hate to have them waiting for her when she woke up. Not sure how to go about that, though. Perhaps I’ll get them from the local florist, pick the up the day before, and drop them off at her house on my way to work.

I was dating tHer guy on and off for the last year. He treated me really badly and everyone including Her friends kept asking why I still put up with him. I really didn’t know why I did but I finally got sick of it and ended it. Her friend kept calling me and wanting to hang out. I did hang out with him a few times and in the back of my mind I was thinking I was just doing tHer to get back at my ex. Weeks have past and I really do like tHer guy. He is one of the nicest guys that I have ever been with.

Pick a night that it is supposed to rain and take your honey somewhere like the beach or to a park. Walk and talk and have a Puppy Love. Have a splash in the puddles. Little is more romantic than kissing in the rain.

One of the first questions I ask is “how old are you?” and if they are not younger than me, I tell them that I’m only interested in younger women. Honestly just the thought of them being younger is a turn on, they don’t have to be 40. When I was 15 I had sex with a 19 yr old and when I was 17 I went out with a 20 yr old and now I’m 19 and I’m going out with another 19 yr old, but she is a few months younger. She’s so hot so I guess I’ll let that slide! I’ve hooked up with girls younger than me but never more than one year younger or else I think it’s disgusting.

Let’s see, I was a freshman in High School, about 15. All of my friends had already started having Puppy Love, and I still hadn’t kissed a guy. My best friend Tiffany had her 16th birthday party at her house and later at the movies. For the most part, he kept thrusting Her tongue in my ear, it was weird but I thought “What the heck, he knows more about tHer stuff than me so whatever….thrust if you must…” Then we finally kissed, it was so awkward, we bumped teeth and so on. He made me so wet I could smell me 5 feet away.

My favourite way to kiss, is to bring her in close with my hands, slowly kiss her lips, and then open mouth, and a little tongue, while also cradling her head with my hands. Then when I pull away, she gives that look, like she wants me forever plus a day.

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A great way to save money is to be aware of the fact that one has the power to define the state of his finances specifically through a conscious effort of disciplining the way one spends and controlling one’s expenditures.

Self-Discipline And Saving Money
Self-discipline will most definitely be the key to reducing one’s debts therefore increasing the possibility of growing one’s savings. And in the long run, improve one’s standard of living.

According to money management book author Robert Hastings, “Undisciplined money, usually spells undisciplined person”. Therefore, if one notices how his hard-earned money seems to slip away so darned easy, then it is about time that he rethinks his ways and try to discipline his unpleasant spending habits.

One of the essential keys to successful money management, specifically saving money is to possess proper attitude. Self-discipline is at the topmost of this proper attitudes list, of course.

Saving Money
Only with self-discipline that people recognize that they do have the freedom and power to do the right thing over doing as their impulses dictate.

Sounds complicated? Well, not really. Knowing fully the fantastic rewards of disciplined money in a disciplined person’s hands should be motivation enough for one to do all that is humanly possible to achieve that elusive financial stability everyone hopes for.

Here are some helpful money saving tips.

1. Realize that the most convenient method of building one’s wealth is through saving money. Money is the only sensible material to save.

2. Focus expenditures on the things one needs. Live day-by-day knowing that you have enough.

3. Avoid buying on impulse. Take your time when buying, especially the expensive items. If you really need it, it would most definitely not slip your mind. Otherwise, if you go along forgetting all about it, then it isn’t really worth the money you have to spend on it at all.

4. Credit card debts hold the number one slot as the cause for financial drains these days. Control your spending by using your credit cards less. Or for unavoidable circumstances when you really have to use the credit card, consider using the ones that charge less interest. Then dump the high interest ones for good.

No matter how you look at it, saving money is so easy to do. A little bit of imagination, some creativity and a lot of self-discipline will take you a long way in keeping hold of your hard-earned money. More on Saving Money Tips.

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Divorce can be a very hard time in anyone’s life.  It can be something that is hard to deal with emotionally and financially at the same time.  Sometimes it is even possible to go into financial ruin because of a credit problem once the entire divorce is over.  You may have to find a way to rebuild your life and your credit at the same time.

Credit is very important and you must make sure that you do what you need to in order to reestablish it and get it back on track.  You want to make sure that you are a competitive consumer in the world today and that means that you need to have good credit.  You will want to make sure that you are taking the right approach to rebuilding credit that is so very crucial to your financial well being.

There are things that you need to take care of after a divorce and one of the most important to do is to cancel credit cards that are in both names.  You do not want to have credit cards floating out there that are in both of your names.  You want to make sure that you take care of the finances that are in your control.  Once you do the canceling of credit cards that you do not need or want anymore, you can then focus on getting your own credit built. 

In order to rebuild your own personal credit, you will need to get smart.  This will mean that you will have to make sure that you are getting credit cards with good interest rates and that are going to help you with your good credit.  You will want to make sure that you are getting all the right information that you need to make good solid decisions when it comes to your credit cards and what is best for you.

You may want to think about getting some counseling for your credit rebuilding.  This may be a good idea because you will be able to find out the different ways that you can control your credit card debt a little more and you may find out great secrets that will help you make smarter decisions about what you do with your finances.

You want to make sure that you are on a budget. This is very important.  You need to have a good system planned out.  You want to only have credit with credit card companies that have good interest rates and that are going to help you with your financial building.  You want to make sure that you are not overspending on these limits.  Only use what you plan to pay back as soon as possible.  This is of course unless you find yourself in an emergency and you need some extra money for an unexpected emergency. 

Make sure that you are fixing your previous married credit history before you change your name back to your maiden name if you are a divorced woman.  You want to fix these problems so that you are not taking down your new name and new way of life because of the poor choices that you have made in the past. You want to make sure that you are careful and think about the way that you are using your credit and find ways to control your spending so that you can get back to a debt free life. 

Take you’re time and pay of the debts that you have one at a time.  Concentrate on the higher interest card first. You want to take care of them and get them out of the way so that you are able to get control of your life and all the finances that are involved with it. You can be sure that if you take the safe approach and find ways to make your budget work, you will be able to get your life on track again and make a good difference in the way that you life your life and make your finances work.

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Sometimes things happen and we are not very sure how to deal with them. One of these things may be that we are going through a personal problem like a divorce. This is a time when there are so many emotions going on and you are not sure what is going on in some cases.  There are many feelings that you may be hiding deep inside and you are looking for a way to release them.  When this is the problem, you may want to consider writing a journal to take care of the issues. 

You can build a new life for yourself if you are able to write down your feelings and things that you would normally keep to yourself.  These things will include the daily reminders that you have to endure and how they make you feel. You may want to include what you are going to do in order to make these reminders seem a little bit easier to cope with.  You will be surprised at how writing it down on paper can help the situation a little more.

A journal is also something that you can use to comfort your feelings when you are ashamed to do so any other way. You may want to make sure that you are including everything that has happened since your divorce started. You can make sure that you are keeping track of the daily things that make you sad or things that you do to make yourself feel better.  As you are writing you will see that your true emotions are coming out and that you are finally able to make some head way on rebuilding your life for the better.

You can write in your journal anytime that you want and make the most of it. You will find that when you are expressing your feelings on paper you will be more able to find out how you are really feeling.  You will be able to look back on your journal and see what you are going through and how you are coping with the changes that are being made in your life. 

When you are writing a journal it is important to be honest. You do not want to write anything that is not true. After all this is something that you are using to let your true feelings come out.  This is a way for you to express who you are and what your intentions are. You want to make sure that you are keeping this journal in a safe place so that no one else will be able to get your private thoughts. You do not want others to know how your personal feelings are affecting you in some circumstances.

A journal can help to make you feel more confident in the way that you are feeling. You will want to make sure that you are using this journal to make your divorce go better. You will be able to look back on your journal and see how much you have improved over time. When you are continuing to write in the journal all the time and every time you want to express a certain feeling.  You will be able to see the progress that you have made so that you can see how much better off you are now that the divorce is over with. You will see the beginning and everything in between on your wild and amazing journey that you have been taking.

You can make a journal for anything that you want and it is a good method of counseling for anyone that is going through something in his or her life that is difficult.

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